Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below alright, two weeks ago I met this girl in my class. this is how it all started, somehow used my confidence to slide into a study group as I didnt know anyone in there an it was basically all girls in this class. This girl is a freshman in college an I'm a senior an I play football but wont graduate this year. Well everyone ended up leaving the group an me and her were just studying together for a while and I was giving her the eye contact an making her laugh and all that right. Well I come to find out she had a boyfriend about a week ago but she just broke up with him earlier this week. I'm like shit, thats perfect. So we've been studying and she's been always asking me what I'm doing an like saying I look nice an its cute that my mom calls me in the midle of class, yada yada. This was like a day ago I found out she broke up with her bf and she's sayin this stuff. I invited her to go to the game tomorrow an party afterwards and she said she's going shopping with her friend instead and I was over at her place an she calls some guy up. Her roomate always asks her about what this other guy is doing so I think she's talking to him or what? Should I ask her if she' want to go on a date or hang out sometime or what cause I dont want this to go down the friendship road. Or do you think she's just trying to be nice and what not to me and just use me as a study partner. It's like she's really into me at times like when its just me and her and then at other times she isn't like when around her friend(s). What should I do? Confidence is not an issue, I just need to know the next step. Like should I ask for her number when I see her next cause I dont want to do anything online as I feel thats a lack of confidence thing... idk you guys tell me
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Mickey36
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danymal04 said:
Just make your move... take her on a real date. After one of the study sessions, just take her out. She might be coming out of the relationship and telling herself that she is going to remain single and then you come along and she doesn't want to get into another relationship but she is attracted to you... i.e. the mixed singles. You will not know until you try. Don't ask her questions about it, just take her out and if she is into you, she will no longer fight it. Good luck and hope the info helps.
Yeah babe, I appreciate it, it is what it is and I'll see if she wants to get a bite to eat at this local cafe sometime, if not, no big sweat...
I'll talk to her again tomorrow and see where it goes. I'll be able to tell right away if she is still interested in me.. cause this weekend I txt'd her and seen if she wants to get to know me more or just party and be friends? she said both.. kinda confusing
I'll talk to her again tomorrow and see where it goes. I'll be able to tell right away if she is still interested in me.. cause this weekend I txt'd her and seen if she wants to get to know me more or just party and be friends? she said both.. kinda confusing
Mickey36
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danymal04 said:
Good luck and keep us posted. Don't keep asking her what she wants because she is probably not sure herself and you just might have her talk herself out of it. Treat her like you want her and don't question her because her mouth might be saying one thing but her boby and emotions are communicating something different.
well here is the deal now, like she calls me and asks if I'm coming and I told her that I was and when I got there, there was a million people and she was sitting with her friend but she didn't look over at me to say hi or anything like she was mad or something or maybe just when I wasn't looking. After class she was getting help from this girl but didn't even like take a second to look up at me as I walked by her or anything, is she being shy? I'm kinda just about to say screw it... like one day she's into me and the next day not.. I dont get it
