first thing you notice about a man

[*ebony*]

sorry if this is repetive but i was just curious.
and if you have a hubby now what was the first thing you noticed about him? also be specific please. face is too gereral.

for me, if he's facing away from me, yeah i notice the butt first..a nice ass and good strong broad shoulders.
facing me i notice the eyes, usually to see where they're directed at. then i notice lips. third is hands( is that one weird??lol)

when they're close enough i notice their smell. i was once sitting next to this guy and he smelled absalutely delicous...totally wanted get on his lap and burrow my face in his neck. lol

 

[bluey2u]

1. Does he workout?
2. Little or no body hair
3. Is he wearing white Reebok Classics, a cap and XXL tracksuit bottoms showing Primark undies

If the above can be answered - yes, yes, NO then for me its the inner beauty and attitute.

Then YES to either/both pierced or tattooed and I'm sold.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I "met" my husband online so I don't know how to answer this question.

The first thing I noticed about him, honestly, was his mind as there was not much else for me to go on.

 

[*ebony*]

I "met" my husband online so I don't know how to answer this question.

The first thing I noticed about him, honestly, was his mind as there was not much else for me to go on.

oh yeah thats right i remeber reading that somewhere on the women's forum on one of the threads. you 2 met here on EF?? can't remeber and can't find the thread.

p.s. i refuse to beleive that you have stopped noticing men after you met said hubby. come on BK fess up.

this topic come in up last night...... or more it was prbly early today when i was out with some of my girls. they had some really different anwsers. feet( the size and type of shoe he's wearing is supposed to tell you alot about a man according to one of these ladies). i also got answers: fingernails(????), hair and EYEBROWS(another???)and crotch(lol).

 

[Bikini Mod]

oh yeah thats right i remeber reading that somewhere on the women's forum on one of the threads. you 2 met here on EF?? can't remeber and can't find the thread.

p.s. i refuse to beleive that you have stopped noticing men after you met said hubby. come on BK fess up.

this topic come in up last night...... or more it was prbly early today when i was out with some of my girls. they had some really different anwsers. feet( the size and type of shoe he's wearing is supposed to tell you alot about a man according to one of these ladies). i also got answers: fingernails(????), hair and EYEBROWS(another???)and crotch(lol).

No, that was actually Smurfy and Lumberg. They met on EF. My husband and I met on a very different type of site. LOL - it was a sugardating site.

I never said that I stopped noticing men. hehehehehe I am married, not dead.

But my answer is still the same. I notice the way a man carries himself above anything else. I used to date men that were pro bodybuilders and men that could have been models, very handsome men so for me a man's body or chiseled features are like "meh"..... I realized in my mid 30's when I went back out into the dating world (after the breakdown of my first marriage which spanned all of my adult life until that point) I was much more attracted to the "overall package", not really one physical characteristic or another. Will I notice a man's forearms or smile or sense of personal style (every girl is crazy bout a sharp dressed man LOL) - yes, but that isn't what holds my attention for more than a fleeting second. It is the way he carries himself - period. And you know damned well that I have been paying attention for a lot longer than 2 seconds (which is how long it takes to notice *this body part* or *that body part*) if I am sizing up something as complex as that.

And your girl is very right when she talks about a man's shoes.

Two ways you can tell if a man is "doing well" (as opposed to playing like he's got two nickels in his pocket):

1. his shoes.

and

2. his timepiece.

 

[*ebony*]

No, that was actually Smurfy and Lumberg. They met on EF. My husband and I met on a very different type of site. LOL - it was a sugardating site.

I never said that I stopped noticing men. hehehehehe I am married, not dead.

But my answer is still the same. I notice the way a man carries himself above anything else. I used to date men that were pro bodybuilders and men that could have been models, very handsome men so for me a man's body or chiseled features are like "meh"..... I realized in my mid 30's when I went back out into the dating world (after the breakdown of my first marriage which spanned all of my adult life until that point) I was much more attracted to the "overall package", not really one physical characteristic or another. Will I notice a man's forearms or smile or sense of personal style (every girl is crazy bout a sharp dressed man LOL) - yes, but that isn't what holds my attention for more than a fleeting second. It is the way he carries himself - period. And you know damned well that I have been paying attention for a lot longer than 2 seconds (which is how long it takes to notice *this body part* or *that body part*) if I am sizing up something as complex as that.

And your girl is very right when she talks about a man's shoes.

Two ways you can tell if a man is "doing well" (as opposed to playing like he's got two nickels in his pocket):

1. his shoes.

and

2. his timepiece.

i agree with the confidence. i like it suptle also, i've notice guys that strut around with their chest up in the air like they own the world and then there is that other guy who just has the aura about him, where you feel reassured just being near him. am i making sense?lol

Whats with the shoes ladies? i never noticed shoes first. so if he wears sneaker or a pair of Jordons then he's poor. what if it just his style. i mean do you notice a man with a pair of aligator shoes by ralph lauren or prada or something that might cost thousands?
Bikinimom, timepeice..like a watch?

 

[Bikini Mod]

i agree with the confidence. i like it suptle also, i've notice guys that strut around with their chest up in the air like they own the world and then there is that other guy who just has the aura about him, where you feel reassured just being near him. am i making sense?lol

Whats with the shoes ladies? i never noticed shoes first. so if he wears sneaker or a pair of Jordons then he's poor. what if it just his style. i mean do you notice a man with a pair of aligator shoes by ralph lauren or prada or something that might cost thousands?
Bikinimom, timepeice..like a watch?

Dear lady - you *get it* and yes, you are making TOTAL sense. That young stud insecure alpha male "lemme piss on your leg to show all the other males that you are my lady" bullshit is NOT what I am talking about. You completely hit the nail on the head.

IMO if a man is wearing sneakers anyplace other than the gym then he just isn't my style. That is JUST ME. I can guarantee you that once a man has *arrived* he will opt for shoes above sneakers every single time, that is unless he is in, on his way to or from the gym.

I could care less about *designer* shoes but moreso comfortable custom shoes. You will know them when you see them. Trust me ladies, next time you are out look at the men's shoes. The dudes with bank ALL have comfortable shoes that are custom made. He could be wearing jeans and a ripped T-shirt but his feet will be surrounded in comfort.

And yes, by time-piece I meant watch. I am not talking about bling... I am talking about classic timepieces. Men with means ALL wear nice timepieces.

 

[*ebony*]

LOL. this is some interesting stuff!!!

 

[Cutiebaby]

My god this was so many many years ago. I was friends, then kinda like best friends before we got together.
I noticed his teeth, i love his teeth..Also noticed his shoulder/neck line area. I love that part on a man, and I love his shoulder/neckline to this day. I love his ass when he wears jeans.

 

[*ebony*]

My god this was so many many years ago. I was friends, then kinda like best friends before we got together.
I noticed his teeth, i love his teeth..Also noticed his shoulder/neck line area. I love that part on a man, and I love his shoulder/neckline to this day. I love his ass when he wears jeans.

now that you mention it i do look at a guys teeth!!! how bizzare! i'm drawn to the ones that give you that boyish toothy grin.
did i mention i'm a sucker for guys with dimples. so cute.

but yeah bad teeth is a def. turn off.