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Someone kept taking the clothes out of the dryer and just throwing them on the garage floor to do their own laundry at my house. I have always really known that it was the step son, but never caught him red handed.

I told all the kids to please put any clean clothes in a basket and bring them inside and to not throw them on the floor. It kept happening. I said that the next time it happens, I will take the perp's clothes and throw them in the pool.

Now, son just got home from school and no one else is here. I watched him go into the garage with a basket of his clothes and now my freshly cleaned clothes are in the floor.

It would be psycho for me to throw his clothes in the pool, and would probably mess up the damn pool chemicals, anyway. But damn I want to! What would be a snarky but not completely psycho way to make my point?
 
manny78 said:
Pee on his clothes, have him wear a pink suit and walk on the street with a cardboard saying, "I make pee-pee in my bed".
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ROFL! Maybe you shouldn't have kids, Manny...lol.
 
He's trying to tell you something
Either
1. Your a dumb bitch and not my real mom
or
2. Your really hot and I want your attention, good or bad
 
HeatherRae said:
ROFL! Maybe you shouldn't have kids, Manny...lol.
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You laugh hey ? But I remember some guy on my street had one of his son stand at the corner of the street with a cardboard saying "I stole money from my parents, I'm a loser" under his neck. We were like 7 yr old and while we didnt know this kid very well we're still scared.
 
jestro said:
He's trying to tell you something
Either
1. Your a dumb bitch and not my real mom
or
2. Your really hot and I want your attention, good or bad
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LOL
 
manny78 said:
You laugh hey ? But I remember some guy on my street had one of his son stand at the corner of the street with a cardboard saying "I stole money from my parents, I'm a loser" under his neck. We were like 7 yr old and while we didnt know this kid very well we're still scared.
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Rofl...that is a good punishment! However, squatting and peeing on his school clothes...hmmmm...just not "me" LOL
 
When his wash cycle gets done, dump his stuff on the garage floor & put your next load in. He might catch a clue.
 
HumorMe said:
Idle threats will get you nowhere.

Throw them in the pool like you said from the start.
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Agreed, HR already drew the line in the sand. If she doesn't back it up, she'll be perceived as weak.
 
IMO you should do what you said you were going to do. Your word has to mean something good or bad. Let them know you will follow through w/ what you have said. It reminds me of my wife when we first were together. She would yell a little loader each time threatening her boys. I told her after a while you lose the effect of yelling and they become accustomed to that tone. There has to be a cause and effect for their actions. Sooner or later they will realize that you keep your word whether it be to reward them or reprimand them.
 
Take his clothes out of the washer when they are damp and put them in the freezer. Then when they are good and frozen put them under his bed to thaw out.

I agree with the others, you have to give him a consequence or he'll just walk all over you. Plus he'll respect you more if you totally own him.
 
ask him why he did it.
then ask him if you put a basket next to the dryer (or on it, whatever) will he put your clothes in there instead?
if he says yes, there's a good chance he'll do it. if he doesn't, tell him you thought you could trust him and ask what he thinks you should do about it.
 
ponyfitness said:
Take his clothes out of the washer when they are damp and put them in the freezer. Then when they are good and frozen put them under his bed to thaw out.

I agree with the others, you have to give him a consequence or he'll just walk all over you. Plus he'll respect you more if you totally own him.
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Yea, he has no respect for you. You need to get it now.....all good answers. Do a little of each. Throw his shit in the pool, pee on them, put them in the freezer then under his bed to thaw out
 
1. walk around naked infront of him since he put ur clean clothes on the floor

or

2. he's telling you to fold your fucking laundry bitch its been in the dryer 2 long
 
mrdeeznuts said:
2. he's telling you to fold your fucking laundry bitch its been in the dryer 2 long
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True, stop posting on EF and fold your damn laundry when it is done drying. Your clothes won't wind up on the floor.
 
redguru said:
True, stop posting on EF and fold your damn laundry when it is done drying. Your clothes won't wind up on the floor.
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lmfao. no doubt. sitting around, flicking her bean all day to my pirated pics. shame the fuck on you, HeavyRae.
 
Throw him out on his fucking arse and tell him to get a place of his own to do whatever the feck he wants. A roof over his head, nice clothes on his back and warm food in his belly and he shows you that degree of respect? Hit him where it hurts - in the pocket.
 
He probably resents you because you arent his mother. Moral of the story is dont marry a guy who already has kids.
 
go out and pepper spray that motherfucker

while he's on the ground being a bitch throw all his clothes in the pool, then throw him in there.
 
LOL throwing them in the pool would definatly get his attention, but then you would look like the child pitching a fit. I would padlock lock the dryer and leave a note.."when I'm ready to take my clothes out I will, here's two bucks go to the laundry mat".
 
HeatherRae said:
Someone kept taking the clothes out of the dryer and just throwing them on the garage floor to do their own laundry at my house. I have always really known that it was the step son, but never caught him red handed.

I told all the kids to please put any clean clothes in a basket and bring them inside and to not throw them on the floor. It kept happening. I said that the next time it happens, I will take the perp's clothes and throw them in the pool.

Now, son just got home from school and no one else is here. I watched him go into the garage with a basket of his clothes and now my freshly cleaned clothes are in the floor.

It would be psycho for me to throw his clothes in the pool, and would probably mess up the damn pool chemicals, anyway. But damn I want to! What would be a snarky but not completely psycho way to make my point?
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Ban him from the washer dryer until every last piece of clothing he owns is dirty.Then send his ass to the laundrymat and make him pay to do his own laundry.

BUT - make sure his father is aware of what you plan to do.
 
Put a crayon in the dryer with his clothes. I did that at an apartment once where someone pulled my shit out of the washer. I crayola'd their dryer. Makes one hell of a mess.
 
back up what you said...otherwise you'll get runover. then try Sassy's suggestion. if that doesnt work, add a red shirt then bleach to his laundry. everything will turn pink.

if all fails- FED-EX him to Manny.
 
Just throw them in the pool right before they are done drying.

When he asks where they are, tell him that he should know because you already warned him.

Tough love is needed right now. Tough love is better than getting your ass beat by a tough chick.

Whiskey
 
HeatherRae said:
Someone kept taking the clothes out of the dryer and just throwing them on the garage floor to do their own laundry at my house. I have always really known that it was the step son, but never caught him red handed.

I told all the kids to please put any clean clothes in a basket and bring them inside and to not throw them on the floor. It kept happening. I said that the next time it happens, I will take the perp's clothes and throw them in the pool.

Now, son just got home from school and no one else is here. I watched him go into the garage with a basket of his clothes and now my freshly cleaned clothes are in the floor.

It would be psycho for me to throw his clothes in the pool, and would probably mess up the damn pool chemicals, anyway. But damn I want to! What would be a snarky but not completely psycho way to make my point?
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That dude must offer you a life of comfort and ease. No way could I put up with that bullshit otherwise.
 
stilleto said:
ask him why he did it.
then ask him if you put a basket next to the dryer (or on it, whatever) will he put your clothes in there instead?
if he says yes, there's a good chance he'll do it. if he doesn't, tell him you thought you could trust him and ask what he thinks you should do about it.
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I think this is the best response. Throwing his shit in the pool will only make him seek revenge. He already has a problem.
 
im a big fan of the "if you make a mess, you get to clean up an even bigger mess" school of thought

if someone in the family leaves their cup/plate/mug laying about, they get to pick up everyones cup/plate/mug

if someone in the family makes a mess in one corner of the room and leaves it laying about, they get to clean up the entire room

since your stepson was so inconsiderate as to dirty your already clean clothes (a double violation imo) then imo its appropriate for him to clean, dry and fold EVERYONES clothes...for one wash.

dont neglect to give him a chance to lie to you about dumping your clothes on the floor, in which case depriving him of various other privilages is the way to go...if not throwing a shoe at his head

(my sisters used to do all this shit all the time. its fucked.)
 
Tytan said:
clothes......pool...smile......I told you so......smile again.
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Won't work. He'll seek revenge. Just will make things worse.
 
PICK3 said:
breast feed him
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In that case, I want to be the stepson.
 
HeatherRae said:
Someone kept taking the clothes out of the dryer and just throwing them on the garage floor to do their own laundry at my house. I have always really known that it was the step son, but never caught him red handed.

I told all the kids to please put any clean clothes in a basket and bring them inside and to not throw them on the floor. It kept happening. I said that the next time it happens, I will take the perp's clothes and throw them in the pool.

Now, son just got home from school and no one else is here. I watched him go into the garage with a basket of his clothes and now my freshly cleaned clothes are in the floor.

It would be psycho for me to throw his clothes in the pool, and would probably mess up the damn pool chemicals, anyway. But damn I want to! What would be a snarky but not completely psycho way to make my point?
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Smack him in the mouth!
 
ROFL...I think this is one of the funniest threads I've read on here...good answers you guys.

Okay, so I hit him with a 2 by 4, peed on him, spanked him, put him in the freezer and threw him in the pool then dumped the clothes in too....just kidding.

In reality, throwing clothes in the pool seemed a little too Jerry Springer for me. Instead, I just came in with one of my shirts and started pretreating it with one of those pretreating sticks in front of him. Then I acted really distressed and said that oil got on it fromt he garage floor and I didn't think i could get it out (yes, it was all an act). He went out and rewashed my clothes, folded them and brought them to me without me asking. It appears that guilt works with him. LOL.
 
HeatherRae said:
ROFL...I think this is one of the funniest threads I've read on here...good answers you guys.

Okay, so I hit him with a 2 by 4, peed on him, spanked him, put him in the freezer and threw him in the pool then dumped the clothes in too....just kidding.

In reality, throwing clothes in the pool seemed a little too Jerry Springer for me. Instead, I just came in with one of my shirts and started pretreating it with one of those pretreating sticks in front of him. Then I acted really distressed and said that oil got on it fromt he garage floor and I didn't think i could get it out (yes, it was all an act). He went out and rewashed my clothes, folded them and brought them to me without me asking. It appears that guilt works with him. LOL.
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sounds like to me you just found a way to have someone do yet one more of the slim list of chores you have
 
mrdeeznuts said:
sounds like to me you just found a way to have someone do yet one more of the slim list of chores you have
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So who is the smarter person in life then, worker bee? LOL.
 
Just take them and hide them. Tell him you threw them away and will continue to throw away his clothes if yours continue winding up on the floor.
 
Protobuilder said:
Just take them and hide them. Tell him you threw them away and will continue to throw away his clothes if yours continue winding up on the floor.
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He would probably take revenge on my coctail dresses in the closet, or something. They are far more expensive than the shorts and tshirts he wears to school. LOL.
 
HeatherRae said:
Someone kept taking the clothes out of the dryer and just throwing them on the garage floor to do their own laundry at my house. I have always really known that it was the step son, but never caught him red handed.

I told all the kids to please put any clean clothes in a basket and bring them inside and to not throw them on the floor. It kept happening. I said that the next time it happens, I will take the perp's clothes and throw them in the pool.

Now, son just got home from school and no one else is here. I watched him go into the garage with a basket of his clothes and now my freshly cleaned clothes are in the floor.

It would be psycho for me to throw his clothes in the pool, and would probably mess up the damn pool chemicals, anyway. But damn I want to! What would be a snarky but not completely psycho way to make my point?
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You too huh... ?

my bro was living next door to me and had free access to my house. He or his gf would come do laundry and just take my clothes either out of the dryer, or washer and cast them aside to do their laundry. I am always running around, sometimes out of town.. etc. I get home late and see the clotes in the basket so... i'm like cool they are dry. I'll get to them tomorrow... well, low and behold they are still wet and by the time I get home the next day I have to rewash them.

HOW HARD IS IT TO TAKE THE CLOTHES OUT OF THE WASHER (ESP IF YOU ARE USING MY DAMN WASHER) AND PUT THEM DRYING?

Well... no more problems with that, I've since kicked him off my property, Now I have my mom not talking to me because she can't believe I would do that to my own brother :rolleyes:

I bought him a car about a year ago, Its under MY name, he didn't pay tax title and license.. NOW this boy makes damn good money, more than me. I don't get his insurance nor payment for the car on time EVER, My electrical bill is doubled my water bill is doubled.. he has free cable because he runs it from my house.

So My car is in the shop, I go to pick it up and I was told that I needed to clear up a flag on my license and renew insurance before I could take my car :mad:

I ended up spending close to 700.00 to clear all that up... and it was because he failed to get the registration on the car. So now the car is up for sale. I had the car on my property, I had the keys and it was locked. When I went to him to give him the option of paying me the fees it cost me to get my own car back or sell the mustang, he said he would pay me. I got a check from him for his insurance and a portion of what he owed me for basic utilities... go to cash it and he'd done cancled the check... AH, don't you just love family. So I booted him...

In the meantime while all this is going on, he said he wanted the radio and the brand new rims off the car.. I refused to allow him to have them because he owes me more than I'll ever get for that car. So when I'm outta town he breaks into the car and takes the damn radio. LOL

Yo... anyone want a mustang?
 
Frisky said:
You too huh... ?

my bro was living next door to me and had free access to my house. He or his gf would come do laundry and just take my clothes either out of the dryer, or washer and cast them aside to do their laundry. I am always running around, sometimes out of town.. etc. I get home late and see the clotes in the basket so... i'm like cool they are dry. I'll get to them tomorrow... well, low and behold they are still wet and by the time I get home the next day I have to rewash them.

HOW HARD IS IT TO TAKE THE CLOTHES OUT OF THE WASHER (ESP IF YOU ARE USING MY DAMN WASHER) AND PUT THEM DRYING?

Well... no more problems with that, I've since kicked him off my property, Now I have my mom not talking to me because she can't believe I would do that to my own brother :rolleyes:

I bought him a car about a year ago, Its under MY name, he didn't pay tax title and license.. NOW this boy makes damn good money, more than me. I don't get his insurance nor payment for the car on time EVER, My electrical bill is doubled my water bill is doubled.. he has free cable because he runs it from my house.

So My car is in the shop, I go to pick it up and I was told that I needed to clear up a flag on my license and renew insurance before I could take my car :mad:

I ended up spending close to 700.00 to clear all that up... and it was because he failed to get the registration on the car. So now the car is up for sale. I had the car on my property, I had the keys and it was locked. When I went to him to give him the option of paying me the fees it cost me to get my own car back or sell the mustang, he said he would pay me. I got a check from him for his insurance and a portion of what he owed me for basic utilities... go to cash it and he'd done cancled the check... AH, don't you just love family. So I booted him...

In the meantime while all this is going on, he said he wanted the radio and the brand new rims off the car.. I refused to allow him to have them because he owes me more than I'll ever get for that car. So when I'm outta town he breaks into the car and takes the damn radio. LOL

Yo... anyone want a mustang?
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ur family sucks not get over it and suck my tiny itsie bitsie wee wee
 
ponyfitness said:
Take his clothes out of the washer when they are damp and put them in the freezer. Then when they are good and frozen put them under his bed to thaw out.

I agree with the others, you have to give him a consequence or he'll just walk all over you. Plus he'll respect you more if you totally own him.[/QUOTE]

Let's think this through rationally... there MUST be a consequence for his behavior.

I wouldnt throw the clothing in the pool.

I would just take them, put them in a bag and keep them in my closet until his misses them and starts looking for them.

THEN YOU HAVE THE TALK.

No damage done to the clothing but how much you want to bet he pees himself when he finally summons up the courage to come and look for his belongings?.... either that or he runs around naked.

Simple..... shmimple
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mrdeeznuts said:
ur family sucks not get over it and suck my tiny itsie bitsie wee wee
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I know... I've never had a perfect relationship with any of them besides my oldest sister. The others take advantage of what ever they can and don't appreciate a damn thing.
 
HeatherRae said:
He would probably take revenge on my coctail dresses in the closet, or something. They are far more expensive than the shorts and tshirts he wears to school. LOL.
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Then throw his ass out. It's not a democracy.
 
Frisky said:
I know... I've never had a perfect relationship with any of them besides my oldest sister. The others take advantage of what ever they can and don't appreciate a damn thing.
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u forgot about part 2
 
Frisky said:
You too huh... ?

my bro was living next door to me and had free access to my house. He or his gf would come do laundry and just take my clothes either out of the dryer, or washer and cast them aside to do their laundry. I am always running around, sometimes out of town.. etc. I get home late and see the clotes in the basket so... i'm like cool they are dry. I'll get to them tomorrow... well, low and behold they are still wet and by the time I get home the next day I have to rewash them.

HOW HARD IS IT TO TAKE THE CLOTHES OUT OF THE WASHER (ESP IF YOU ARE USING MY DAMN WASHER) AND PUT THEM DRYING?

Well... no more problems with that, I've since kicked him off my property, Now I have my mom not talking to me because she can't believe I would do that to my own brother :rolleyes:

I bought him a car about a year ago, Its under MY name, he didn't pay tax title and license.. NOW this boy makes damn good money, more than me. I don't get his insurance nor payment for the car on time EVER, My electrical bill is doubled my water bill is doubled.. he has free cable because he runs it from my house.

So My car is in the shop, I go to pick it up and I was told that I needed to clear up a flag on my license and renew insurance before I could take my car :mad:

I ended up spending close to 700.00 to clear all that up... and it was because he failed to get the registration on the car. So now the car is up for sale. I had the car on my property, I had the keys and it was locked. When I went to him to give him the option of paying me the fees it cost me to get my own car back or sell the mustang, he said he would pay me. I got a check from him for his insurance and a portion of what he owed me for basic utilities... go to cash it and he'd done cancled the check... AH, don't you just love family. So I booted him...

In the meantime while all this is going on, he said he wanted the radio and the brand new rims off the car.. I refused to allow him to have them because he owes me more than I'll ever get for that car. So when I'm outta town he breaks into the car and takes the damn radio. LOL

Yo... anyone want a mustang?
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Damn! Your brother is a pain in the ass!!!
 
mrdeeznuts said:
don't make me wet

ps don't u love high jacking threads
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Yes... it makes me all tingly inside
 
HeatherRae said:
He would probably take revenge on my coctail dresses in the closet, or something. They are far more expensive than the shorts and tshirts he wears to school. LOL.
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A la Clinton?
 
I was hoping this was a post about you getting caught in the act. Of course with pictures and video to follow - I lost interest about two sentences in when it wasn't about that.
 
heather, just talk to him. I talk to my kids with respect and they show it back.

maybe he is mad that you're even there- thats a bigger issue.
 
stilleto said:
heather, just talk to him. I talk to my kids with respect and they show it back.

maybe he is mad that you're even there- thats a bigger issue.
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I agree... I find when I sit my kids and/or my godchildren... neices and nephews down and actually talk to them it makes a world of a difference. Show him that you care about his views, though you may not agree... you want to address them and help him out.
 
well just take his clothes out before they are dry. Leave them on the ground. When he picks them up they will stink so bad! He will have to re wash them etc.
teach that boy a lesson!
 
stilleto said:
heather, just talk to him. I talk to my kids with respect and they show it back.

maybe he is mad that you're even there- thats a bigger issue.
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He actually loves having me here. He is a Sr. in H.S. and I am more of an advocate for him with his dad than anyone has ever been for him. His dad is tough on him, in my opinion. He digs me. We like the same music, etc and I cook for him and his girlfriend. So, I think our relationship is pretty good. =-)

It's the girls that are jealous of sharing their daddy.
 
HeatherRae said:
He actually loves having me here. He is a Sr. in H.S. and I am more of an advocate for him with his dad than anyone has ever been for him. His dad is tough on him, in my opinion. He digs me. We like the same music, etc and I cook for him and his girlfriend. So, I think our relationship is pretty good. =-)

It's the girls that are jealous of sharing their daddy.
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then there's no need to resort to threats. just say "hey, can you do me a favor? if you see my clothes in the washer or dryer, can you just put em in a basket instead of the floor? I don't always get to them as fast as I should. thanks, i appreciate it."

my experience is, if you talk to him like an adult, he'll act like one.
 
stilleto said:
then there's no need to resort to threats. just say "hey, can you do me a favor? if you see my clothes in the washer or dryer, can you just put em in a basket instead of the floor? I don't always get to them as fast as I should. thanks, i appreciate it."

my experience is, if you talk to him like an adult, he'll act like one.
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I agree.

If you come off hard it will turn into a standoff.
 
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