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Came clean with w/wife about AAS

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flyingfox272

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I have been with my wife almost 15 year and used anabolics on and off for the last 5, In the last year and a half I have really stepped up my training as well as my AAS use. She knew I did some orals some years back but thats all I ever told her.

Well I just did not want to hide anything from her anymore or try to explain why I was recieving goods from research companies, hiding pins, night sweats, medical waste etc. It's actually pretty amazing she never caught me.

So last night over dinner I told her what I was doing and gave her all the details, to my surprise she took it very well, and she appreciated me being up front with her.

No more sneaking around hiding gear or wondering if she'll walk in while I'm pinning myself.
I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders.

peace!
 
georgie24 said:
NEVER CRACK!!!!!!!!!!

it will come back to haunt you

why dont you guys ever think?
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word..i dont tell my chick...then she could use it on me...wait...in time yours will to fox...just my opinion...maybe not...maybe she is totallly cool...
 
she's got ALOT of leverage NOW!

she can reduce you down to nothing via spite and manipulation if you rock her boat the wrong way and being on gear will magnify those feelings
 
I don't see what the big deal is. I told my now fiance after dating her for like a month. Not that it wasn't obvious. I was 250 at the time @ 5'10". She was fine with it, partly because I'm not some retarded musclehead (but i do look like one). It doesn't define who I am and I hope it doesnt define who any of you are either. Her only concern is my CV health and risk of sterility. Other than that she give me my pins where I can't reach (which for me is everywhere except quads) and just complains that she can't find any clothes in normal stores to fit me.
 
not only does she have leverage

everyday you will try to convice her that gear use isnt dangerous and she will worry to death and you will regret ever telling her

she may never fuck with you about it, but do you need her to worry 24/7 about you?

why cant you guys keep it on the low??

my girl has found needles and tabs but i just wisk it off and say they belong to some friends
 
I think the decision to tell your significant other should be based on their level of understanding/ignorance/brainwashing. It's like anything else, if people have pre-conceived notions about something, nothing you do or say is likely to change them. I forgot to mention my fiance is a nurse, so she knows what is and what isn't about AAS. She knows the science behind it just as well as I do, and like I do she knows that there are some real risks like I mentioned above. But she also knows it's not the devil's poison the media would like everyone to believe it is as well.
 
SlimJim300 said:
I would never tell a girlfriend, but I will tell my wife (if I ever get one, haha).
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Never tell a girlfriend you are doing anything illegal. never. maybe a wife after 15-20yrs, but if you've gone that long not telling, keep it up unless it gets to be too big a hassle.
 
You did what you felt you needed to do and I think if you are comfortable with it then it's a good thing. I do believe, however that you made a huge mistake. I don't think anyone needs to know that I am juicing. I have told a few real close buddies who I work out with, and one who juices with me, but never my woman. With the negative stigma attached to gear use, just think what a psycho bitch could do with that in a fight, child custody issues, divorce, assault, domestic problems, threatening you with it, blackmail issues. I for one will keep my use private, forever. My $.02
 
How can you guys keep this a secret from your wife? Girlfriend is a no-brainer but it would be impossible on many levels to pull the wool over my wifes eyes. For one she can see major changes in physique, strength, moods, list goes on. I keep no secrets from my wife that way we can trust each other completely. She is the only person in the world that knows of my AAS use and I plan to keep it that way.
 
flyingfox272 said:
I have been with my wife almost 15 year and used anabolics on and off for the last 5, In the last year and a half I have really stepped up my training as well as my AAS use. She knew I did some orals some years back but thats all I ever told her.

Well I just did not want to hide anything from her anymore or try to explain why I was recieving goods from research companies, hiding pins, night sweats, medical waste etc. It's actually pretty amazing she never caught me.

So last night over dinner I told her what I was doing and gave her all the details, to my surprise she took it very well, and she appreciated me being up front with her.

No more sneaking around hiding gear or wondering if she'll walk in while I'm pinning myself.
I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders.

peace!
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you are a very lucky man and you should buy your wife something special for being so special and supporting you in such a way!
 
you absolutely did the right thing bro. Tis much better to be open about everything with your loved one. enjoy the peace of mind!!
K to ya.
 
dude..everytiem you get pissed..shes gonna blame the steroids...everytime you dont do something she wantss...she'll blame the roids...youre fucked mang...
 
the US has ingrained this terrible persona on AAS users; I haven't lived there in a while but it appears (from the media and forums, journals, etc) that the mainstream has lumped AAS users in a category as a "degenerate" -- as if they would a heroin user.

Is this the media or what?
In any case, educate your gf and she won't believe the hype. Its no different than a women wanted to have breast implants to make them look and feel better - yet that isn't frowned upon. AAS is men's implants :)
 
It really depends on the girl - she could be cool with it and not the type to use it against you. In which she would be 1/3,500,000,000
 
georgie24 said:
you made a big mistake bro, she can ruin you...im not kidding
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he's been with her for 15 years. I think he knows better than you do that he can trust her.

A girlfriend is a different story. If he'd been dating her for 2 months or something, then no - he shouldn't tell her.
 
it doesnt matter!

she can always hang that shit over his head as leverage if shit goes sour in the relationship.

there are great women out there im sure...... he maybe needs her emotional support hence his reflief when he spilled his guts....
 
flyingfox272 said:
I have been with my wife almost 15 year and used anabolics on and off for the last 5, In the last year and a half I have really stepped up my training as well as my AAS use. She knew I did some orals some years back but thats all I ever told her.

Well I just did not want to hide anything from her anymore or try to explain why I was recieving goods from research companies, hiding pins, night sweats, medical waste etc. It's actually pretty amazing she never caught me.

So last night over dinner I told her what I was doing and gave her all the details, to my surprise she took it very well, and she appreciated me being up front with her.

No more sneaking around hiding gear or wondering if she'll walk in while I'm pinning myself.
I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders.

peace!
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I think you did the right thing bro. honesty with your wife is very important. if it was a girlfriend I may have had a different oppinion, but you got be be honest with your wife. mine knows and im glad she does, I hated sneaking around.
 
good for you and your relationship bro, but i wouldnt have done it. my wife has been close to finding out for a while now, but I won't give it up willingly. I don't want to give her any ammo or leverage for anything. But then it also depends on how educated she is about AAS, you guys might be in an argument and she might bust out and call you a junky or something, or she might use it to justify something that she is doing. Well i don't know your wife but I do mine, so again good on you bro and GOOD LUCK :)
 
Never come clean.. you never know how the relationship will go considering 51% of marriages do end in divorce. I keep secrets from my family and friends because I know certain information will only be damaging towards me.
 
My wife accused me of using gear long before I ever did use so we had the discussion while I could emphatically deny it. She made it quite clear that she didn't believe me, though, so I didn't see any point in telling her when I did start.

She 'knew' about it long before I did. :)
 
Wow you guys must be dating some real retarded headcases. I can understand if he or she is a fine piece of ass and you're single, then sure keep them in the dark. Hell, they'll proably believe you if you tell them the sky isn't really blue. But if it's your WIFE, having secrets from each other is the beginning of the end. Might as well send her packing now, cus god only knows what she's keeping from you.
 
I agree with 52. If you have relationship with your wife that you need to hide your AS use then either you can't explain it well or you need a new wife. I think most men that don't tell their wives would be surprised, like flyingfox, to find the wife doesn't care. I am not ashamed of what I do. As far as, "she's got something on you" goes, so what? She might tell people you use AS? Who are these women that are so out to get you? It's too bad when you can't have a totally open and honest relationship out of fear.
 
Ulter said:
I agree with 52. If you have relationship with your wife that you need to hide your AS use then either you can't explain it well or you need a new wife. I think most men that don't tell their wives would be surprised, like flyingfox, to find the wife doesn't care. I am not ashamed of what I do. As far as, "she's got something on you" goes, so what? She might tell people you use AS? Who are these women that are so out to get you? It's too bad when you can't have a totally open and honest relationship out of fear.
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AMEN brotha!
 
There's a difference between a secret and something that's not discussed. I don't chat with her much at all about my lifting and she just accepts that she gets a decent, balanced meal cooked in the evening. Aside from that, she knows I lift weights and can open tight jars. If she were to search my study, she'd very quickly find orals, vials, amps etc. even powders. Accordingly, I assume that she did at some stage and never felt the need to discuss it. I have nothing to discuss with her on the matter so...

Maybe it helps that gear is legal over here.

I have trouble understanding relationships where everything has to be out on the table for scrutiny and disection. Maybe that just comes from 20 years of marriage. I have vague memories of early insecurity.
 
georgie24 said:
not only does she have leverage

everyday you will try to convice her that gear use isnt dangerous and she will worry to death and you will regret ever telling her

she may never fuck with you about it, but do you need her to worry 24/7 about you?

why cant you guys keep it on the low??

my girl has found needles and tabs but i just wisk it off and say they belong to some friends
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always blame it on the friends that wat i do...the girlfriend found a bottle of test in my drawer and she flipped a shit....blamed it on my friends she didnt talk to me for two days...i would never never never tell her....i am not a huge user so i can play it off and i tell her i just work hard and diet good

but if your girlfriend is a hot headed italian...i wouldnt advise telling her

just my 2 cents
 
my wife is great with it. Never hid it once, talked to her about it alot. Made her feel like I knew wtf I was doing, and the precautions I take. Now she calls it "my medicine". :) Got to love her, she is wonderful with me doing what I want to achieve my own personal goals.

"Hey honey, your medicine is on the counter, you need to put it away!!"
 
George is right, I told my wife about it and was super cool the first year or so and now anytime we get in a argument I get the "what are you on some roid rage." and yes I have been on tren during these so it makes yo even madder, lol, anyhow, We also have a child, if we ever get divorced, not planning to but if we ever did, that is all the judge has to hear is me and my AAS use and wham, no kiddo. DO NOT TELL ANYONE EXCEPT THAT VOICE IN YOU HEAD AND HIM TOO.
 
flyingfox272 said:
I have been with my wife almost 15 year and used anabolics on and off for the last 5, In the last year and a half I have really stepped up my training as well as my AAS use. She knew I did some orals some years back but thats all I ever told her.

Well I just did not want to hide anything from her anymore or try to explain why I was recieving goods from research companies, hiding pins, night sweats, medical waste etc. It's actually pretty amazing she never caught me.

So last night over dinner I told her what I was doing and gave her all the details, to my surprise she took it very well, and she appreciated me being up front with her.

No more sneaking around hiding gear or wondering if she'll walk in while I'm pinning myself.
I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders.

peace!
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My wife knows I'm on legally prescribed HRT. She does not know about the other 1g/wk I use, but I don't have to hide needles or gear. best of both worlds.
 
TrenAman said:
George is right, I told my wife about it and was super cool the first year or so and now anytime we get in a argument I get the "what are you on some roid rage." and yes I have been on tren during these so it makes yo even madder, lol, anyhow, We also have a child, if we ever get divorced, not planning to but if we ever did, that is all the judge has to hear is me and my AAS use and wham, no kiddo. DO NOT TELL ANYONE EXCEPT THAT VOICE IN YOU HEAD AND HIM TOO.
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The judge won't consider it without evidence. They don't pick sides as to who is telling the truth. Unless you've been arrested for it or there is some other documentation or witnesses of your use she can't use the knowledge she has against you. I was divorced 8 days ago. I know this to be a fact.
 
hopefully she doesnt take some syringes, tabs and hide them for future. women are smart about the way they will fuck you!

why do you men " feel good" admitting personal business to females?

grow a pair!
 
my girl is also a nurse and has even ask me point blank: "are you on steroids?".

i know she wouldn't tell anyone nor would she use it against me in any way. she never did during my past drug use (which helped ruin our relationship the first time around) and never has held it against me. now we are back together....she is the most loving, forgiving and understanding woman i've ever met. i will marry her.

still, i will never admit to AAS use. you can have a trusting relationship without telling each other every single little detail about your c^nt hairs.

they use birth control, we use aas. minus the legality, same difference....

congrats ulter....time to party like your single again....
 
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Just be careful.... any arguments/fights now she might try and pull the "roid rage" BS card on you. If not, then we're all happy for you.
 
My wife gives me the shots - LOL. I trust my wife but not my girlfriends. My wife hates the stuff only because I cheat so much while on a cycle.
 
Ulter said:
The judge won't consider it without evidence. They don't pick sides as to who is telling the truth. Unless you've been arrested for it or there is some other documentation or witnesses of your use she can't use the knowledge she has against you. I was divorced 8 days ago. I know this to be a fact.
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Thanks for the info, sorry you had to find out the hard way.
 
extremefighter said:
My wife gives me the shots - LOL. I trust my wife but not my girlfriends. My wife hates the stuff only because I cheat so much while on a cycle.
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do you tell your wife about your girlfriends :p
 
It just depends on the woman really. I had a good friend that I ended up dating and she flat out asked me if I was on because I was a lot bigger that the last time she had seen me. I asked her why she would ask that. She told me that she dated a guy that wa on a did a lot of research about them. So I asked her a lot of questions and she really did know a lot about gear. She even knew that roid rage was bullshit. Now my ex on the other hand would flip out if she knew I was on gear. She knows I am on by the way I look but I would not admit it to her.
 
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