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[Munkeee de Sade]

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Hey my boyfriend wants two chicks to give him head at once me and someone else. The think is I have to pick her we have to rent a hotel and he will not know her name and will never see he again.

My problem I love him with all my heart and the thought of another chick doing that makes me jealouse. I am a very jealouse person when it comes to him. I told him he would leave me for the other chick thats why we came up with the rules that we did.

If I do this it would make him so happy it is his ultamite fanacy. Atleast he doesn't want to sleep with up both only head and thats it.

Do you think this is a good idea? I have taken into concideration that I am a jealouse person and talked to him about it. He has promised me nothing would happen between us. If anything it will make us closer (I think that may be bull)(I am scared it will make me upset) Please HELP

 

[Zerxes]

Why would you even consider this if you know that you won't be able to enjoy it??? What are you going to do, sit there and fight back tears of jealousy while this broad is sucking him off or what? And btw..where are you going to find this 1 in a million girl who only wants to blow some guy she doesn't know, and not get anything else out of it?! Let me know when you find her, cause I'll fly her in to see me right after you guys finish with her. Hunny, don't do this!! You will only end up hating yourself for doing it, and more than likely HIM for even asking(or moreso PERSISTING it appears) when he knows you don't want to go through with it.

He sounds like an asshole. No offense but you asked.

 

[bighead]

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Do you think this is a good idea?

Absolutely not.If your not comfortable with what he wants you to do then to hell with him.There is no way that he should be trying to force you to do this.Do not go along with this,you will lose all respect for yourself afterwards.

Zerxes is right,he sounds like an asshole.Forcing you to do this is just plain wrong.He has no right to ask you to do this if you don't want to.

 

[SirMack]

If you do it once he'll want to do it again, and again, and eventually it'll be full blown threesome sex with various women.

Its a stepping stone situation where it will lead to more. And if your not comfortable with it then you are lying to yourself and him. You need to work on your communication and talk to him and explain the situation to him. TEll him you love him but you can't stand the thought of it. Just tell him that your sorry but you can't do it without feeling horrible. IF he doesn't understand then find another guy. There are lots of good men out there that will take what you say to heart and will respect whatever decisions you make.

 

[Munkeee de Sade]

he is not a asshole. He isn't tring to force me to do it. He just wants a fantacy played out. I know I don't have to do it. It would make him happy. Has anyone here ever did anything like that with their other? Did it complicate things?

 

[Zerxes]

he is not a asshole. He isn't tring to force me to do it. He just wants a fantacy played out. I know I don't have to do it. It would make him happy. Has anyone here ever did anything like that with their other? Did it complicate things?

Omg...WHO CARES what other people have done, & if it complicated things with them?? This is YOU we are talking about here, and you have already stated that you are jealous of this guy when there ISN'T someone else slobbing on his knob, so what is it going to be like when there is??? You just want someone to tell you to go ahead and do this, but noone will because you have already stated unequivically that it will hurt you. So I think that your question has been answered. Don't do it. I have a feeling though that you will anyhow, because this guys happiness seems to mean more to you than your own.

 

[Andre9]

make a deal. You give him head with another chick, then he agrees to let another man give you head. Watch his reaction...

Andre

 

[Dr.M]

I think people should, hopefully have the same fantasies. If this doesn't fit the bill it seems unfair of him to ask, or maybe he "knows" it wont be a problem, hmm.

 

[Snow White]

Don't do it ... Tell him to hire hookers. Then, you won't even know and he can act out his fantasy.

 

[TEXgrl]

threesomes etc are most men's fantasies.....some men will never vocalize it. i seriously doubt if you did it that he would leave you for the other person. HOWEVER,

#1 you sound very young.
#2 YOU don't want to do it and are only doing it to make him happy and that is a recipe for disaster. you should only do something that you both want to do.

if you decide to do this anyway, which by the way i think is a very bad idea given the things you have said, make sure you pick someone you will not be seeing around town....find someone who will go away or the aftereffects of your night together will haunt you.