Just for the record, not all assholes are guys either....
But I totally agree -society tells girls we're supposed to be quiet, nice, pleasant, seen / not heard, do all the house work, etc. Then we get out and guys make us feel like the only way they'll give us attention is if we hand out blow jobs on demand, etc.. And then we hit "real life" and realize trying to do all that conflicts completley and we just want to be accepted for who we are.
At the end of the day, the only person you have to impress is yourself. The only person you shoudl depend on is yourself. And anyone who tells you are anything less than that or should do anything other than that is someone who is either trying to make themselves feel better or to mindfuck you. These people need to be immediately removed from your life so you can get on w/ the amazing things that you can accomplish and gain legitimate satisfaction from that.