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Any of you hide your AS use from the wife or girlfriend.

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crash3837

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My 1st cycle I went and told my girlfriend that I would be doing it just to be honest, I didn't want to feel like I was hideing something from her (I regret telling her now) , and she says never again. My 1st cycle turned out great, I was very pleased with my results. I want to do another one, she says she won't be around if I do another one. I am tempted to just go ahead and do one anyway and not tell her and just hide it, since she has made up her mind about me doing another one.
 
I'm just worried if I do another one how I'm going to hide it from her, Because the 1st one I did everone noticed. If I start growing all of the sudden I feel she will start to suspect something is up. But who knows.
 
I've thought about that, and that could work considering the next one I probably won't get such explosive gains being my second cycle. The bitch is I hardly drink at all but if I'm going to cycle the drinking goes, and that could be another dead give away.
 
I know how you feel bro about being honest with her but i think in this case dont tell her. like the said on another post just tell her its the cell tech and show her their ad in a mag
 
Crash, here is my advice, wait to tell her.

When you are midway through your next cycle and look all buff and shit, pick up some hottie, bring her home, and go to town. And I mean, do it up right.

When your wife walks in on the both of you, tell her, 'Hey honey, I am doing another cycle, is that ok?'

That way, she probably won't be that upset about the gear.
 
Tx that is funny as hell:FRlol: :FRlol: :FRlol:
I told my gf, and she did not like it at first, then I started showing and telling her about the side effects and how all the media scare tactics. She saw that they are no worse for you than drinking and parting all the time. I also told her that if I started to change into someone else I would quit. She agreed, and over a year later, she helps plan cycles for me:D don't lie it will just make things worse...educated her!
 
Crash, If everyone noticed your first gains as you say , do you think that she has taken a stupid pill and will not notice the second?

How long have you been with this girl......if your not acting like an ass while your on gear....what is her problem? Concerned about your heath? ...Educate her!

If your little women is going to leave you for something as petty as this ....bud there are already problems in this relationship.

Sorry to hear that!
BK
 
Good one TX:p :p I dated a girl for awhile that hated juice. She seriously dated this guy that was pro content, I saw pics, he was freakin huge. I did not tell her for a long time that I juiced, then got tired of the guilt and told her. It was nothing permenant so oh well, but to sound like Dear Ann or some s**t, Do you want honesty in your relationship?
 
This is how I convinced my girlfriend.

My girlfriend is very self conscious about her weight. I proposed that we go down to Mexico for a vacation and while down there i told her I was interested in buying some AS, and getting her some phentermine and clen too. She agreed because if I couldn't have my AS, she couldn't have her freaking diet pills!!
 
ColumboWeiser, I've tried to educate her on some of this. She told me that I was going to get all psycho( and I never did), nuts would shrink(never did) ect. OH and my favorite of all, its against the law so that means its wrong. She smokes, drinks, but thats ok because its legal.
 
That really sucks man! Can you tell her that your nutz will grow back and that your personality did not change the first time, why would it this time? I told my gf that all roids do is increase existong behaviors. For examle the pick bastard at the bar or gym on juice was a prick bastard before juice, they are the ones that give us all a bad name!!:mad: :mad: :mad:
 
basskiller Crash, If everyone noticed your first gains as you say , do you think that she has taken a stupid pill and will not notice the second?
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No I don't think that she has taken a stupid pill. I posted this thread because it is going to be hard to mask it or hide it if I do go about it this way. I'm trying to see others veiws and see how others have delt with this subject.
 
find another girl! u said she smokes and drinks. those are both HIGHLY addictive drugs! its YOUR body not anyone else's! this is only MP. good luck brotha!
 
how long have you guys been together? Tell her you are addicted like she is to smokes...Make an agreement with her, you are doing them, you love her and you will not choose. Work out a deal with her if possible?!?!:confused:
 
What I'm trying to say,Crash, either tell her or not do the cycle.

How do you think she will react , if you do the cycle(telling her that you change your mind and quit gear) and she finds out that you didn't.

I'll lie to even my mom, but I won't lie to my wife!
It's just too hard remembering all that shit.


Your the best one to answer your own question, every women is different.... what works with mine, might not work with yours..

If you don't know by now.....women have a memory like an elephant....they don't forget shit! This blows my mind

"you remember two years ago, when we were over so in so's house and you said"


Good luck Crash
 
Yes I know,,, they do have good memories, the catch is that they only remember what they want to remember. Usually dumb shit.
 
Dude youre girlfriend is jealous!
Shes just mad cause she can never reach the same potential as you!
My advise is ditch her and find youreself a girl that accepts steroid use!!!

:mix:
 
it took a long time, but after showing her some hard facts, explaining to her about gear and what "this one is good for" and "what that one is good for" she started to come around. i explained every aspect of my cycle to her, including the anti-es and clomid, along with the test, etc,etc. bottom line was this- knowledge is power, and since she knew what i was putting in my body, she was definitely more receptive to idea.
if you dont tell her, she will continue to believe the myths and misconceptions surrounding steroid use, and it will be a constant wall between you.


peace bb79
 
dude dont hide it from her...she already knows your symtoms and the way you are on gear, it will suck for her to find out the hard way.
 
Women have spent decades lying to us. They have it down to a fuckin science. There is NOT an honest woman about everything on the planet!

I say don't tell her. Why? Because...

When a woman says she has no interest in him, or doesn't like him, or brings him up in negative ways ... she wants to fuck his brains out.

When a woman makes 2 hour trips to the store and comes back with one bag... she fucked his brains out.

The list could go on, but point blank, she doesn't care about lying to you, so why should you care? The diference is, you just may not know what she is lying to you about. Get a bunch of andro, leave it laying around, when she asks what it is, tell her it's the stuff that baseball guy was using, and do this about the same time you start your cycle. Use HCG to keep your nuts full, and have faith, but don't be afriad to return the favor of lying to her!;)
 
MadMachine said:
When a woman makes 2 hour trips to the store and comes back with one bag... she fucked his brains out.
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I think someone is catching on.

Winny fan knows what I'm talking about, too.
 
I do not tell my wife when I am on gear.

I have an idea for you.

1) Get off alcohol now.... before gear....that way, if quitting booze is a giveaway.... you'll be clean and can be confident in that it's NOT a giveaway!

2) Do less of a cycle. I did 40mg winny and 20mg anavar a day for 4 weeks. Got incredibly cut and strong but not all that much bigger. Took some time off and I am going again soon.... just anavar 30mg a day.

Don't get impatient or greedy...you can have both.
Lose the booze first. It's a sign of dedication. Make your diet a thing a beauty.....so that everyone knows you have changed your lifestyle and body to a healthy bad ass machine. THEN do a small cycle. You will get a lot from it and arouse little, if any, suspicion as your life has turned for the better already.
 
well my girlfriend absolutely thinks juice is sooooooo wrong and evil.......well she drinks on weekends and is a smoker.......I just put up like this......that's her drugs that's what she chooses to do to her body......this is what I chose to do to mine......oh and a little G here and there ;) but we chose the life style......There's no bad side effects in my opinion that are as bad smoking or drinking......so I'm going to juice on !
 
Dude, you know your girl better than us.. Is she liberal or conservative when it comes to things of this nature.... The fact that she said no for the 2nd cycle tells me she is more conservative... You just got to decide which is better the satisfaction of having her around or the feeling that you are larger than life :)!
 
Tx, trust me bro, I'm only 21 but I know how women work now. Fuck it, lie to her, she does to you! (Whether you think so or not.)
 
My wife said if I ever used gear she would leave me, so I hid my first cycle from her. Then we got in a big fight when I was in the middle of my second cycle and I told her all about it. She didn't leave dammit, lol. But now she is cool with it and doesn't question me at all about it.
 
I do like having my woman around,,, but I think she's seen one to many after school specials about gear. MadMachine yes I know very well that they are liars, but I still don't feel right about sinking to their levels.
 
I refuse to tell my gf but if she asked id tell her and if she wanted me to quite id stop imediatly and trash all the gear but if she didnt care id ask her to do my injections. so either way its what matters to you more your gear or your girl. for me its the girl
 
ya that a tough one crash. I hear you. I would get the same response form mine. Dugs are wrong because they are illegal. I'm not planning on telling her about my next cycle, but I think it's going to be pretty tough to hide from here. If you want to keep her and want to be honest, just tell her and ask her to deal with it. If she can't, then some of these guys are right and you got more problems with this relationship that meets the eye.
 
My girls a nurse, she gives me my injections. She might as well know. How the hell am I supposed to explain why I am gaining 20 lbs in 3-4 weeks. I trust her anyway. she aint going to give me any shit anyway or I will tell her to get her bitchass back into the kitchen and fix me some pie :D
 
crash, i can sympathize my brutha.
This is what you do, and don't listen to any views that conflict with mine:
Don't tell her, most quality chicks are simply not receptive to anabolic steroid education, so don't bother.
your gonna have to stick to compounds like anavar, primo, winstrol etc for now. you are gonna have to plan your cycles to last longer than you might ordinarily. you can grow on 100mgs of test every week or even ever other week (therapeutic dose) along with the ox or what ever else thrown in, but forget about fina, anadrol, deca, dbol. I am in the same situation, and these are the conclusions i have come up with. Things that help, depending on her level of intelligence: subtly mentioning how hard and well your workouts have been going, convince her you know far more about training techniques and nutrition than the average dude, talk about how some of these know supplements out these days are almost as good as AS, but use discretion, my chick knows nothing of any of this so whatever i tell her she believes, heheheh. think about it, if she thinks your natural, it will be a lot easier for her to convince her friends/acquaintances if they happen to ask. My philosophy is that the women folk only need to know whether or not daddy will be home for christmas, but hey, that's just my opinion, i could be wrong, but not about this, trust me pal.
 
Try educating her. Talk about how you were alright on the last cycle and nothing happened but positive results. Maybe show her the Anabolic Review, etc, to see that gear is not something done without research, etc.

And, tell her that you are also doing this for her because you want to keep her.
 
she hated it ... now she loves it.

Crash, hey bro my girl got totally pissed when i didnt tell her that i had done gear or that i was going to do it again. When i confessed she said she would leave me if i raged or acted really cocky. But i talked to her about it and said "ill try to do my best not to rage ... but i cant garuntee the cocky attitude part"

now that im on the shit she realizes that its not as bad as the media makes it up to be and she actually has fun with it. Especailly when im on test / d-bol she calls me
"Stay Puff JamesMallow Man"

So i say tell her. I mean if she leaves you over this you dont want to be with her anyway.
 
This probably isn't a popular response, but I say tell her. You say you are going to marry her, right? Well after five years of marriage, I have come to the conclusion that somehow your wife finds out everything! And believe me, you'll have hell to pay if you cycle and she finds out you didn't tell her. Most females are big on the respect thing, and she probably won't feel like you respect her if you're not honest with her.:bawling:
 
Don't say a thing.

I've been married 10yrs now, and I have brought up steroids to her many times. Every time she hears about it, she replies with the "I will divorce you if I find out you're taking steroids." Plain and simple. So essentially for me, the topic is closed.

I told her I was going on a bulking 'plan'. I ate a lot. I talked about eating a lot. And I ate some more. I got bigger. In ten weeks I went from 160lbs to 207lbs. I moaned and groaned about eating - kept saying I'll be glad to diet soon. I was using 600mgs enanthate, and 400mgs of deca a week. Life was good....

Until she rubbed my back one day and felt some acne under my shirt. Just a small patch right between my shoulder blades. I had to move my position from 'hiding' to 'hiding and lying'. She asked me, and I lied. I looked her straight in the eye and lied my ass off. If you hide it - one day you will have to decide to either fess up, or lie to your grave.

It's not an easy choice, it's very individual. Certainly it's more problematic once you've established a life with someone who supposedly trusts you.

I'm not a big fan of burning bridges, so I can't tell you why I would start a fire on the one I'm on. Go figure.
 
My girlfriend asked me the same things about consuming roids, because of the gains I got, but I told her it was a result of my supplements, as far as she saw the amount of them, the shakes I drink, and the number of meals I do she got kind of satisfied with the answer, anyway any time I have I tell her about the benefits of the roids, and how to use them to avoid the hard side effects, in my next cycle she will start wondering again about my gains, so some day I will have to tell her the truth, but while I am educating her to have wide perspectives in this issue and to look at the benefits, hoping her to get used to the gear before I tell her the complete truth.

Lets remember our opinion of roids before starting to learn about them, so lets teach first.

In regards to my girlfriend issue, I was thinking about telling her to check this message board for her to learn about excercise and diet, but then I thought she would recognize me because of my signature and some stuff, and besides the roids I dont want her to find out the stuff I write in the "between the sheets" board, so lets see what happen.

:smash:
 
Take my word for it. Unless your girlfriend has the time and effort to research and learn about AAS as did 90% of the people on this board, she will always think that you are doing something wrong. People fear what they don't understand. I told my girlfriend about my second cycle, but believe me - I shouldn't have. The only people that should really know is your lifiting/injecting partner and your doctor. All else causes unwanted grief.

Rule 1. Never tell your chick shit
Rule 2. Never tell your chick shit:argue:

"IT"S CREATINE, I SWEAR"
 
Hey Crash,

I had to join this forum just to respond to your question. When I first started thinking about doing steriods I dropped a few hints and things around the hous and noticed that it wouldn't go over very well with her. So, I decided to do it anyway and not tell her. Like you had stated everyone at work seemed to noticed the change in my body, but my girlfriend (now my wife) didn't notice shit. Near the end of the first cycle though she busted me by finding a needle I carelessly left on a bookshelf. She was OK with it but asked that I stop because of the dangers. I did for awhile but couldn't stop so I did the next cycle being carefull not to leave any evidence around. I ran the whle course with everyone but her noticing the changes again. However she did notice that I was sweating a lot more than normal.

To make a long story longer, she sees you everyday and its makes it harder to see the changes. On the otherhand if you went away for a month and came back the changes would be more evident.

I say hide it. Keep supplements around the house, change your diet, get an ECA stack to point to for the sweating, and go for it.
 
you could do a cycle of finaplex. or anything else that you can make into a spray on solution. buy some legal anabolic Sports Skin Tonic or anything like that. Put the finaplex in the spray bottle instead. that way you could do it in front of her and she could not complain cause your doing a legal supp. and your following her desires. when you get big you can just say "you know honey this stuff is really works great." Oh yea don't leave the bottles at home she could pour that stuff down the drain and replace it with water. you can love them but can you trust them?
 
telling my wife

When I first started thinking about the idea of using AAS I approached my wife with it, and she was like, NO WAY. However, she spent 5k on a new pair of boobs, which I love, So I used that as my selling point. I told her that there were alot of people who would say that there are health risks, costs, involoved in getting implants, but that didn't stop her. So, why should I let it stop me. I did my research, and shared everything with her. What drug did what, what the sides were, etc. And would you beleave, she took notes? We discussed it, and I she started coming around. Well, to make a long story shorter, I am on my first cycle, and my wife even does the harpooning for me.

Remember, knowledge is power. Educate her, and you will be fine. Also, dont forget, she may say she is going to leave you, but if she loves you, she wont. and if she does, take that new body, and go find a real hottie, she will see you and decide she fucked up, and you will get a nice peice of tail to bang for a while till she does.

Just my .02
 
Crash, crash....crash.... Your not sinking to their level, your simply making the playing field more even. (You know, the reason most athlete use gear...to not give up an advantage.)Don't let her win because you will feel guilty, have pride in your "Guilt" because you have done and gotten away with something you shouldn't...just like she does. You have taken away part of her superiority as a woman...

If she dumps you, do what I did...be upfront.

Even time i started talking to a girl, and i said juiced, straight up. My current girlfriend doesn't care. In fact, she goes through my packages for me, makes sure everything is there, organizes the stuff, and encourages my "Side Business" in the gym with it.

Look at it this way...it's like having something in common with her. Or another way would be that you need to find someone that can respect, and encourage the goals you have and the things y ou like to do. You need the support, trust me, it helps!
 
I agree with Wicked Mental. Excellent rules to live by. Wife is one thing, girlfriend is another. I told my girlfriend like an idiot. For other reasons she recently broke up with my and now my elegibility is jeaprodized if she opens her mouth. Damnit.
 
I told my girl and she broke with me for a week. If she loves you nothing matters. one of my friends is going through the same thing. she keeps finding clues here and there. now she doesn't trust him and she knows that he's lying!! now she wonders what esle he lyes about...
do you want her to see you as scumbag or as someone that she can trust.
 
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oh so true MadMachine

quote:
"When a woman says she has no interest in him, or doesn't like him, or brings him up in negative ways ... she wants to fuck his brains out.

When a woman makes 2 hour trips to the store and comes back with one bag... she fucked his brains out.


And Amaf, life is not that simple. It is when you are in your teens. Don't learn the hard way.

Hard, feel free to give us some more info....hehehe
 
TELL NO ONE !!!!!!!

people will discount the hard work you put into the gym and diet !

They have a false sence of AS they think you stick your ass and sit in the lazyboy and grow.

ALSO as far as girlfriend or wife everytime you disagree with them they will blame the Juice !
 
theman43
You say you are going to marry her, right?
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No, never quite said that.
To everyone else thanks for the great replies, its kept me thinking. I will try to educate her on this, but I think what J.Luv said describes it best, especially her
J.Luv
Unless your girlfriend has the time and effort to research and learn about AAS as did 90% of the people on this board, she will always think that you are doing something wrong.
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Lots of you said hide it, and I've thought about it alot. The other half said don't hide it. The things that really made me think the most were posts like: If you tell her and she is going to leave you for doing what you want than you are going to have serious problems with that. I highly agree with that. So I eventually when I'm ready, will purpose to her my 2nd cycle and if she wants to leave that is up to her.
 
Had to tell her

Too much of a pain to hide it - fuck she's found everything I've hid anyway (other than the girlfriends:FRlol: ). She's ok with it, I've tried to educate her on why they are, in the big picture, healthy as long as you don't take them like a moron. She still bitches about them though!
 
The wife told me its either her or the gear. I lied and told her I would quite. From now one very few people will know what I do.

Be safe. Be quite.
 
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