A questions for the ladies, about steroid use & their b/f or husband.

[Mad_maxx18]

If you found out your husband or b/f was takeing steroids....would you tell him to stop it or you would leave him? Just tell him your disaproval? or leave it up to him? Or would it matter?
Just curious....

Mad Max

 

[JuicyGirl]

No problems here. The only problem in our relationship is if there is lying.

When two people are bonded together they must share these types of decisions.

And besides, he might need help injecting his rear delts!


(((bottom line is I just can't stand to be lied to))))

 

[Pinky Girl]

I would have no problem, as long as this is not for all his life (3 to 5 cycles at most), but not more that that. Anyway, I love the muscular boys, but I hate the Connie Rolman type...

 

[tripleV]

i agree with the two above also. I have no problem with him doing steroids, as long as he knows what he is doing. I know alot of guys who "waste" cycles and tempt fate with their heath for litterally nothing cause they do it all wrong.

The main thing is to get over the hiding of the fact. But he'll probably say that he knew you would get mad.

My thoughts, I learned everything I could about men and AAS also so I could inform him and help him ou in that. (of course on top of the women stuff which is most important to me)

 

[wilson6]

Unless the guy is taking huge doses of trenbolone and halo and turning into a psycho I don't see what difference it makes whether he uses or not. If he is responsible with what he is doing, it shouldn't matter. There are so many threads about this. I can't figure out why the significant other (SO) gets so stressed out when they find out their SO is using. If it is not adversely affecting their personality, what does it matter? AAS are not like a coke or heroin habit despite what the media says.

W6

 

[ann]

I agree with all that was stated above. Tell the truth.....lying sucks big time.

 

[Hannibal]

BRAVO!!!

I must say that I commend the ladies of this board for their open-mindedness and understanding. I wish that all women were of the same mindset as you. You have seen past the media hype, and gotten to the real issue...TRUST!! I have never lied to a woman about my use of gear. And I never will...it is a part of my lifestyle. I researched it for several years before deciding...and I waited till I was 24, after natural test production slows down. I also never use amounts that would compromise my health. Just wish that there were more of you out there...that didn't let ignorance fuel their apprehension towards using.

Thanks Ladies

 

[Daeo]

My girlfriend injects me. So I guess she doesn't have a problem. Oh, and she also uses herself...

 

[new@gettinbig]

I see no problem w/ it at all....really I do not know how you would not know someone was using if you have been dating for quite sometime and are very close. The only problem I would have w/ it is if you lie about it. What is the point in that?? They are going to find out sooner or later.....makes matter worse. If you do not approve then I guess its best for you to just move on and not press the issue. May be best to find someone who is not into bodybuilding etc.

 

[ann]

I think most of the ladies who answered this are on some themselves

 

[JuicyGirl]

Yeah, I'd like to see this question posted on a "fat-skinny" board. Heh heh!

 

[tripleV]

i found a board that i thought was for women and fitness or something. Turns out it was for women who "support their men on anabolics" !!!! and they were the cardio queens...fat skinnies

 

[NubianBeauty]

My boyfriend just started Deca Durabolin, and I was kind of leary about at first. He was honest with me before taking it and that is what led me to EliteFitness. I started doing some research on steroid use and found this site. It is AWESOME!!

 

[tripleV]

is your husband just doing deca? b/c my husband is too but it's important to add a test to the stack. My husband is stacking the deca with sustanon...

 

[NubianBeauty]

Yes TV, he is only doing Deca... and he had a hard time getting that. I feel like he needs something else also after all the researching I have done on this site... I was talking to him about Sust, but I do not think he can get it. I was also thinking about Primo with the Deca. He is taking a Prohormone with it but we all know they don't really work.... But maybe he will get some gains taking it with the AS.

 

[tripleV]

well in that case, its still ok, just make sure (im sure he knows) to eat enough calories and protein.

my husbands friend did just deca and got good results...

 

[NubianBeauty]

Thanks TV, he just recently competed in his first BB competition and placed 5 out of 17, and he did it ALL natural. I will post his pics so you can see what he achieved nataurally. I think the Deca alone will work well for him because of his genetics. He is also taking Cell Tech (creatine) and he his muscles have already started to look really swollen.

 

[tripleV]

great ! best of luck and look forward to pics...

 

[Flexx]

Nubian

He needs to add some test. Deca in some males causes what we affectionately refer to as "deca-dick" this means it won't work like it's supposed to. Test will help counter that.

Also Pinkygirl- Who is Connie Rolman ?

 

[JuicyGirl]

Re: Nubian

Who is Connie Rolman ? [/B][/QUOTE]

hee hee

 

[new@gettinbig]

I just noticed that... i think she means Ronnie Coleman?? Now that is a BIG MOFO

 

[target]

My husband does..

My husband started a cycle a few weeks ago and I just started mine. When he told me he was thinking about it, I was against it, I only heard horrible things but it was what he was going to do so...after some research I found myself wanting results as well. Aside from him being a complete asshole everynow and then and bad acne, no major sides! No steroid rage, etc. He does have mood swings and I just bite my tongue (for now). His sex drive has increased which is not necessarily a good thing sometimes, but thats always the way! I complain when he doesnt want it and now that he does! Its just that I lost mine! I will keep you posted on my cycle and hopefully this will not be a decision we both regret!

 

[tripleV]

target what are you doing for a cycle?

 

[sheez_ripped]

i've helped my husband with his injections too. I have no problem with it. He looks great, has always been careful with what he takes. Does careful research and I luv it when he's on...lot's of sex! LOL!

 

[target]

TRIPLEV

10MG anavar everyday, just started, 100 tabs I may go through with that same dose for 100 days , I was hoping to slowly increase 5, 10, then 15 mg but the pills are small and seem like they would turn to dust if I tried cutting them in half!

 

[tripleV]

you will get excellent resultswith 10 mg ed. You can run it longer at that dosage too, if you have more than 100!

 

[Bikini Mod]

The reason for negative societal views on anabolics is because of ignorance and misinformation...also the morons who use them as an excuse to be TOTAL ASSHOLES doesn't help matters. The decision to either use or abstain should be a personal and INFORMED decision. When the parties concerned are married there should be 100% HONESTY - PERIOD, regardless of whether we are talking about anabolics or a freaking toupe (just opposite cosmetic extremes).

IMHO when a couple is married, other than health considerations (If one is educated, this should not be a factor) and sides (I think a husband sh/be informed that his wife runs the risk of a bit of masculinization. Ultimately it is HER BODY, but I think he sh/be allowed to voice his opinion.) the only REAL ISSUE should be monetary. For a male cycling can be EXTREMELY EXPENSIVE. So if there is difficulty making rent payments, I don't think A/S should be a consideration.

If dating, I don't believe that one needs to volunteer such personal issues right off the bat. If one is in a committed, long term relationship then of course, it should be discussed. Not as a means of asking permission, but strictly as information so the other party can decided whether or not they want to continue the relationship.