Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below seems like everywhere i go i have people starting shit with me. whenever im at a party in another town i get people staring me down and starting with me. it has been happening way too much lately. i wear big shirts (xxl) and try to cover up as much as possible.. im not cocky and i dont flash my size around like a lot of people do. so if anyone has had this happen what did you guys do to stop this? its not even fun going out now and im not even that big (6'1 235 7%).
How do you guys deal with this shit?
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Dr.M
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Thats one thing I don't like about standing out, guys with too much test going through thier system want to prove thier manhood, just a bunch of BS.
I'm a pretty easy going guy, so I don't seem to attract to much of that these days, luckily.
I'm a pretty easy going guy, so I don't seem to attract to much of that these days, luckily.
I carry a gun 
j/k...
j/k...
People dont mess with me. I'm 5'10", about 2 and a half (need to cut a bit though), and look like I could pull most peoples' arms off. Of course, I'm out here in the Midwest where people are a lil more friendly. But then again, Massachusetts isnt South Central, so I cant really figure out why people are fuckin with ya.
The bottom line is that the situation dictates your response. If you were with family or a girlfriend, the stakes are obviously raised. The location also plays a factor. It's much different to react violently in a dark alley as opposed to throwing down at a mall where cops could be very near.
What types of people are messing with you? Is it 1 person at a time, or groups of people?
The bottom line is that the situation dictates your response. If you were with family or a girlfriend, the stakes are obviously raised. The location also plays a factor. It's much different to react violently in a dark alley as opposed to throwing down at a mall where cops could be very near.
What types of people are messing with you? Is it 1 person at a time, or groups of people?
The infamous 'house party fuckin-withs'. It's a difficult situation. You dont want to bust up someones house, but you dont want to be fucked with in what is supposed to be an enjoyable setting. Just walk up to the guy starting shit and say something like "Listen, my friends and I came here to have a good time, not start any shit. But if you keep fucking with me, you and i can go outside and 'figure things out' man-to-man". Most will stop frontin right then.
SCOTTY-TWO-HOTTY
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Its probably one of those situations where a guy is with a bunch of his boys and is just trying to pump-up his rep by sweating you in front of them. If he's actually brave enough to get past the hard looks... and he starts talking shit to you... just say "Yeah, you talk big when you're backed-up. Why don't you and I go outside ALONE and WATCH WHAT HAPPENS." I guaran-fuckin-ty you he'll shut the fuck up.
ROLGOR
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I had a guy pulling that shit on me once. I stayed cool and blew it off. Eventually he left his friends and wandered off. I followed him and got him alone in a room. I closed the door, locked it and told him flat out. "I don't fight when I'm a guest in other peoples houses, I don't fight to impress other people, Now here we are just you and me. no witnesses, no one to jump in and break it up or help you out. If you want to start then lets do it otherwise lets get back to partying" He decided he did not want to fight. We have been friends since.
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Thanks... cool... I liked that...
Finaject2001
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Rolgor, its funny that you mentioned thay you guys became friends after that. That happened a lot when I was a kid. As a matter of fact, my best/tightest childhood friendships were with other kids who Id get in a fight with the moment we were in the same space together. The first day of anything, school, camp, boy scouts, whatever, I de get in a couple scraps and then we were all a tight crew! But the stakes are a lot higher these days, if you get into it in a bar or club, those seem to be the places shit starts the most, its not much of a bonding experience. I consider myself very peaceful, I cant stand hassles, but I really dont enjoy going out too much because of all the hotheads out there. And if I go out, Ill never drink right at the bar. The shoving and elbowing is mandatory, it sucks. Ive never ended up friends with anyone Ive gotten into it at a bar. Mostly because you gotta get it done fast and bolt before a.) more people show up for the guy you just dropped or b.) security gets there - Ive had some close calls so I figure the smart thing is to avoid those situations. I think if you keep going to the kinds of places where shit starts, you may yourself be a hothead who kind of passively lets trouble find him. And house parties where you dont know too many people are always sketchy, either sausage parties or if there are any fine pieces they are jealously guarded by their local friends. You gotta pick your spots carefully these days.
Enigmaxxx7
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maybe next time you SHOULD wear a tank top or tight v-neck. also, i find that wearing a real human skull on a chain-saw chain around your neck keeps lots of people away.
naturally anabolic
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people confuse me for an oompa loompa...
I NEVER HAVE PEOPLE START SHIT WITH ME BUT I ALWAYS GET STARRED AT AND PEOPLE GRAB MY ARMS AND TALK TO ME ASKING HELLA QUESTIONS ITS JUST CAUSE THEY ARE CURIOUS, I'M SO USED TO IT NOW I DON'T EVEN PAY ATTENTION TO IT ANYMORE IT DOES NOT MAKE ME UNCOMFORTABLE IT ACTUALLY IS COOL CAUSE PEOPLE COME UP AND ASK ME MANY QUESTIONS. I'M 5'6 225 AT 6-7%BF I DO TRY TO SHOW MY MUSCLES AND ANSWER PEOPLE'S QUESTIONS ANYTIME THEY HAVE THEM ONLY BECAUSE I'M A WALKING BILLBOARD FOR MY SUPPLMENT COMPANY, I AM ALWAYS OVERLY NICE AND JUST EXPECT IT TO HAPPEN NEVER GET IN FIGHTS THOUGH IT'S ALMOST LIKE BEING A CELEBRITY OR SOMETHING IF YOU GET THAT BIG YOU HAVE TO TAKE THE ATTENTION WITH IT JUST MAKE IT POSITIVE ATTENTION.
Longhorn85
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** warning. the followng comment is off topic ***
Do you really have a '71 Olds 442? What type of engine is in it? I have a '71 Olds Delta 88 with a Rocket 455.
Do you really have a '71 Olds 442? What type of engine is in it? I have a '71 Olds Delta 88 with a Rocket 455.
HappyScrappy
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if I'm at a party and I see anyone at all staring at me - then I'll just immediately be like "What the FUCK do YOU want asshole?!"
I'll pound on my chest and flip over the bowl of chips - dip goes flying everywhere. Serves them right for looking at me.
If they are still looking at me, I'll walk right up to them and get in their eyes and if need be push them.
The worst though is when I'm taking wild swings at the little fucker and my hand gets tangled up in my balloons.
In retrospect, I suppose this is why I don't get invited to many parties anymore. Which is a shame since my profession is party clown.
Ironically, it seems I get far more stares as I wander the streets in my clown uniform than I ever did at childrens parties.
live and learn.
I'll pound on my chest and flip over the bowl of chips - dip goes flying everywhere. Serves them right for looking at me.
If they are still looking at me, I'll walk right up to them and get in their eyes and if need be push them.
The worst though is when I'm taking wild swings at the little fucker and my hand gets tangled up in my balloons.
In retrospect, I suppose this is why I don't get invited to many parties anymore. Which is a shame since my profession is party clown.
Ironically, it seems I get far more stares as I wander the streets in my clown uniform than I ever did at childrens parties.
live and learn.
naturally anabolic
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