Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below seems like everywhere i go i have people starting shit with me. whenever im at a party in another town i get people staring me down and starting with me. it has been happening way too much lately. i wear big shirts (xxl) and try to cover up as much as possible.. im not cocky and i dont flash my size around like a lot of people do. so if anyone has had this happen what did you guys do to stop this? its not even fun going out now and im not even that big (6'1 235 7%).
How do you guys deal with this shit?
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Dr.M
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Thats one thing I don't like about standing out, guys with too much test going through thier system want to prove thier manhood, just a bunch of BS.
I'm a pretty easy going guy, so I don't seem to attract to much of that these days, luckily.
I'm a pretty easy going guy, so I don't seem to attract to much of that these days, luckily.
I carry a gun 
j/k...
j/k...
People dont mess with me. I'm 5'10", about 2 and a half (need to cut a bit though), and look like I could pull most peoples' arms off. Of course, I'm out here in the Midwest where people are a lil more friendly. But then again, Massachusetts isnt South Central, so I cant really figure out why people are fuckin with ya.
The bottom line is that the situation dictates your response. If you were with family or a girlfriend, the stakes are obviously raised. The location also plays a factor. It's much different to react violently in a dark alley as opposed to throwing down at a mall where cops could be very near.
What types of people are messing with you? Is it 1 person at a time, or groups of people?
The bottom line is that the situation dictates your response. If you were with family or a girlfriend, the stakes are obviously raised. The location also plays a factor. It's much different to react violently in a dark alley as opposed to throwing down at a mall where cops could be very near.
What types of people are messing with you? Is it 1 person at a time, or groups of people?
The infamous 'house party fuckin-withs'. It's a difficult situation. You dont want to bust up someones house, but you dont want to be fucked with in what is supposed to be an enjoyable setting. Just walk up to the guy starting shit and say something like "Listen, my friends and I came here to have a good time, not start any shit. But if you keep fucking with me, you and i can go outside and 'figure things out' man-to-man". Most will stop frontin right then.
SCOTTY-TWO-HOTTY
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Its probably one of those situations where a guy is with a bunch of his boys and is just trying to pump-up his rep by sweating you in front of them. If he's actually brave enough to get past the hard looks... and he starts talking shit to you... just say "Yeah, you talk big when you're backed-up. Why don't you and I go outside ALONE and WATCH WHAT HAPPENS." I guaran-fuckin-ty you he'll shut the fuck up.
ROLGOR
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I had a guy pulling that shit on me once. I stayed cool and blew it off. Eventually he left his friends and wandered off. I followed him and got him alone in a room. I closed the door, locked it and told him flat out. "I don't fight when I'm a guest in other peoples houses, I don't fight to impress other people, Now here we are just you and me. no witnesses, no one to jump in and break it up or help you out. If you want to start then lets do it otherwise lets get back to partying" He decided he did not want to fight. We have been friends since.
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Thanks... cool... I liked that...
