It's official

[Strongbow]

married 4 years...not sure what you mean by quick?

I thought you was all in fucking love and shit bro? Guess I'm always right huh? Well at least now maybe you can do your got damn Mod job accordingly.

 

[miplank]

lol

 

[ceo]

I see SB is out of hiding

 

[miplank]

cuz I texted his ass

 

[wootoom]

what a mess

 

[calveless wonder]

Why the need to get past things? Just carry the resentment forever. That's what I'm doing. It works for me. very cathartic to hate someone.

lol

i don't know about outright hate, but certainly a type of resentment can propel you forward.

 

[the_alcatraz]

WOW!!!!!!

I predict you will be back with the ex wife one day soon!
Rebounds never work, especially when you are still thinking about your ex.
Sounds like it was a battle of the egos. People grow, we change, you two are still young and didn't give it a fighting chance.

In any case, take it day by day

back with someone I just divorced?? umm....no.

 

[the_alcatraz]

I agree with QT and CW on this one!

After my 11 yrs break up and the last ex, I had to go to therapy both times. My therapist said "death is easier than divorce because you can closure quickly. With a divorce, the person is still around and you often wonder what they are doing and who they are with"


I know I will get slack of this, but men have a hard time being alone. They need to be taken care of. My Dad's friend was married to the love of his life for 45 yrs, she passed and he had a new women in his house washing his clothes in less than 3 months. He's still with her
This is all about not being able to process pain and the feelings of loss are SO hard and uncomfortable, so it's just easier to meet someone else and live in denial and keep so busy, you don't have time to hurt.

Traz, it's great you're feeling some happiness with this new girl, but you still love your wife, period!

I think you misread into this...I still love my wife, yes...but I'm not still "in love" with my wife....that died over time. Offcourse I love her....we were married for a long time....I'll always love her....I still care a lot about most of my past relationships, doesn't mean I'd marry them / re-marry them, etc....

 

[the_alcatraz]

not everyone is the same, honey.

Agreed....besides, men deal with this quite differently than women....

 

[the_alcatraz]

Why the need to get past things? Just carry the resentment forever. That's what I'm doing. It works for me. very cathartic to hate someone.

I have no resentment or hate towards my ex wife is I really think about it....it's better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all type of thing.